Stages in a relationship

According to some LOVE Expert.... there are 5 stages in a relationship:

a)the romance stage
b)The Disillusionment Stage
c)The Power Struggle Stage
d)The Stability Stage
e) The Commitment Stage


i do not know which stages i am in ...but i know tht i miss the romance stage and the disillusionment stage ......

I rate these 2 stages the best ...how i miss those stages with butterfly feelings in ur stomach when u going out for a date ....

Sometimes i feel tht being in a relatioinship too long ....we kindda take both each other for granted !!

example ...for me n marcus ...everyd we would come back homne ....usually he will b the earliest .. than we would sit in fornt of the comp ....exchanging small talks ...and go sleep ....
we would repeat tht every freaking nights ...
sometime weekend would b slightly better where we headed for dinner outside together ....

i often wonder ......what happen to the effort n romance tht we use to have last time when we just started dating ...

often or not ....we just too lazy to put effort in these kind of romance anymore ..especially after 6 years together .....

Honestly ...I would say it kindda SUCKS ...... for both of us .. we are not yet married and i am already bored ..... what will happen after we get married ?
Are we going to b like our parensts ??? staying together just bcos we both feel comfortable ???

I am so piss off until i cant sleep...need to release somewhere n this is the right place to release my fustration ..

when we just started dating ....when we argue ...we would talk it out until we both alrite b4 we go to bed ...but now ...we get piss off ....than we just sleep until tomorrow hoping tht we will forget bout tht .... HOW BAD A RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING !!!! ...