I'm a small gal trying to fit into this big big world where's everything is so complicated and messy ....
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
eVERYBODY SAY " AAAWWWWW , THAT'S SO CUTE "
---------> He/She post up the most adorable pics about pets .... here is some pics i took from there:
http://www.cuteoverload.com/ ...check this blog out ...interesting cute pics .....
The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes Make with Women
“The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women—
And What To Do About It...”
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...
MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You”
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.
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amazing Cakes
Sunday, July 29, 2007
KTZ Food .....in SS2 ....
We ordered
1) Cheong Fun - Char Siew rm 2.90
2) Fried Fish Ball rm 3.50
3) Mango Loh - rm5.50
Rating ...
Cheong Fun is nice n the chili paste is realli nice ...blend well with the dish
Fish Ball .... horrible n expensive .... never order again
Mango Loh ..... nice nice .... lovely ....
Mango Loh
Cheong Fun
Fried Fish Ball ....
Prince Hotel & Residence Kuala Lumpur
Marcus mom brought us to Prince hotel for a hotel tour due to some reasons ... so we got the privilege to see the rooms n apartments in the building ....
This is the 2 rooms apartment that being rented out for rm456 ( corporate rate) which able to fit about 12 people ....but dun tell the hotel cos this actually onli for 4 people ....
For lunch ...we was invited for lunch at the Tai Zi Heen Chinese Restaurant ......
We ordered tim sums , shang hai noodles , Leman Cod Fish , deserts ....
Remarks: the foods their are very normal except a few tims sums and desert which tasted very nice ....however the price is on the higher side ....
Left: Fried Prawn Rolls
Right : Unagi rolls with Teriyaki Sauce
Scallop Siew Mai
rm bout 13.50 a plate for tim sum ....
Almond with jelly n ice-cream
rm10.50
mango desert
rm10.50
Straw3bery with ice cream ...taste realli nice ....
rm10.50
Overall ...loves the desert n the tim sums ....but won't b comin here unless i got 3 months bonus from my company ...hahaha
Friday, July 27, 2007
Bakerzin .....Halo Cafe ....Interesting day .....!!!
God mom just came down from Kota Bharu today for an insurance annual dinner ....while waiting for my mom to come back from work , we went to do some visiting n some shoppin in 1 utama ....
1st event of the day ... went visiting at God dad 's cousin house .....Zang Toi's mom house .... cool rite ?? Yeah ..Zang Toi in like the malaysian coolest new york designer ...... haha !! i went to visit his mom .... but too bad ...the famous designer not here ...his mom told me that he's busy in new york ...... so this year not coming back to Malaysia wo ..... sad sad ...
2nd event for today .....go 1 utama ..... haha !!
WE went there and ended up in Bakarzin .....
Atmosphere : cosy and romantic ..... good place to go pak to .....
Price : slightly expensive ....but worth it ....
I ordered Tiramisu ...which cost me about rm 8.50 ..... quite nice piece of cake .....not too sweet ...just nice ......u guys should try too ...
God mom ordered New York Cheese Cake ..... rm8.50 .....she said that the cheese cake is much nicer then Secret Recipe wo ...... Neway it look nicer than them ...so should b nice lor ...
3rd Event of the day ....
Went to Pyramid to support Winson Road show ....he is now promoting his new song which will b air during the launching of the movie ( cannot remember the name ....some local production)..................the road show is held in Halo Cafe in Pyramid today at 9.30PM ....
I just got one thing to comment ................ the drinks there r expensive n lousy .......each of those cost about rm10.50 without tax ...n its a must for everyone to order a drink ....
i ordered Blue Moon which was recommended by the waitress ....
Marcus ...... somethin gotta do with grape n strawberry ...
Winson singing .....
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Here Some MOre Marriage Jokes
Here's some marriage jokes to share with u guys .... funny to laugh at ....
1) Getting married is very much like going to the restaurant with friends. You order what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered that.
2) Son: Is it true? Dad, I heard that in ancient China, a man doesn't know his wife until he marries.
Father: That happens everywhere, son, everywhere!
3) Bachelor: the only man who has never told his wife a lie.
4) The theory used to be you marry an older man because they are more mature. The new theory is that men don't mature. So you might as well marry a younger one
My Pandan Chicken
Step 1 .....mix up everythin n leave in for 1 hour ...
Step 2 ......wrap the chicken with pandan leaves
Step 3 ....fried the chicken ................
------> mine turn out looking like this .........
While the actual wan looks like this ...... ---->
This is the recipe :
Recipe: Pandan (Screwpine Leaves) Chicken
Ingredients:
Pandan leaves
2 pieces skinless and boneless chicken breast (cut into 2 in. x 1 in. cubes)
1/8 teaspoon sesame seeds
1 teaspoon soy sauce
1/2 teaspoon oyster sauce
1/8 teaspoon sesame oil
3 dashes white pepper powder
1/4 teaspoon sugar
1/8 teaspoon fish sauce
3 inches fresh ginger (grated and squeezed for juice)
Method:
1. Mix the chicken pieces with all the seasonings above.
2. Add the ginger juice and marinate for 1 hour.
3. Put a piece of the chicken towards the end of the pandan leave and roll it up tightly.
4. Hold tight with a tooth pick.
5. Deep fry until the golden brown.
6. Dish out and serve hot
If compare to the pic ... mine kindda sad case rite ? hahah !! ...oooppp ....
image : look burn n dried
Taste : taste blunt ...
Conclusion : next time dun ever try this recipe again .....
Funny Pics ...
Another joke ....office prayer ....!!!
Office prayer
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. The courage to change the things I cannot accept, and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people I had to kill today because they pissed me off. Also, help me to be careful of the toes I step on today, as they may be connected to the ass that I may have to kiss tomorrow.
AMEN!
Ideal Prayer ......for workin people .....
A Christian Deed ( funny Joke )
A Christian Deed
An atheist was taking a walk through the woods.
"What majestic trees! What powerful rivers! What beautiful animals!" he said to himself. As he was walking alongside the river he heard a rustling in the bushes behind him.
He turned to look and saw a 7 foot grizzly bear charge towards him.
He ran as fast as he could up the path. He looked over his shoulder and saw that the bear was closing in on him.
He looked over his shoulder again and the bear was even closer.
He triped and fell on the ground.
He rolled over to pick himself up but saw the bear right on top of him, reaching for him with his left paw and raising his right paw to strike him.
At that instant the Atheist cried out to the Lord.
Time stopped, the bear froze, the forest was silent. A bright light shone upon the man, a voice came out of the sky, "You deny my existence for all of these years, teach others I don't exist, and even credit creation to a cosmic accident. Do you expect me to help you out of this predicament? Am I to count you as a believer?"
The atheist looked directly into the light, "It would be hypocritical of me to suddenly ask you to treat me as a Christian now, but perhaps could you make the BEAR a Christian?"
"Very well," said the voice.
The light went out.
The sounds of the forest resumed. And then the bear dropped his right paw, brought both paws together and bowed his head and spoke:
"Lord, bless this food, which I am about to receive through Christ our Lord, Amen."
My nEW Blogg ....
That's why i am startin a new Blog ....no more bAby darlin ........ ME---> independent GAL ....MUAHAHAHAH !!!
cAN'T believe I going to start work soon ......still dunno which one to choose ........
1) Scomi ----chemist
2) Enersve ---- Process Engineer
However ...if MOX offer me ..gurentee take lor ....however life is not as easy as ABC ....
Still remember this poem Road NOt Taken By Robert Frost ..... ?? My fav poem ....
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth.
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same.
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
I realli love this poem ....it realli speak about us n our daily life where everyd we need to make decisions ..... Publish Post
N anyone of those decisions that u make might chance ur life .....